Now 2 weeks ago my boy comes home from school and burst's into tears (not like him) He started secondary school last sept and there has been a bullying issuse since then we have had at least half a dozen meetings. Problem is it is a girl from a very narsty family so can not talk to them.Now this time she stab's him ok with a pen but the force went through his coat,sweatshirt and t-shirt then marking a cut in his side.Now my old job was with in the school system and with all the new anti-bullying stuff going on i am stright up the school and very nicely ask to see there anti bullying manager.Now this person takes us off to her office with nice bolt down chairs and start's to talk to me as if i am some half wit(Not knowing what job i did) and trying to get me angry knowing she is trying to use Eric Berne's theroy to get me to a state of arguing i asked what was going to be put in place about the bullying.She told me it would be dealt with by the school meeting ends.My son then has nightmares on the next two nights so off to the doctors we go he finds a lot of bruiseing around the impact point and tells us it must of been some force to do it then gives us a mild sleeping tablet in between all this i have been on the phone to all the partys that needed to know at county as i was keeping my son off school to the matter is sorted.No news from the school so i phone them they told me it was being dealt with and if my son went back to school he could be put in isolation to keep him away from the bully i asked why he should be in isolation not the bully and why was the known bully still at school this ended with a meeting being set up with the deputy head.Now when this comes round(last Friday)my boy had decide to go back and face the bully and not change school which i think is realy good at the meeting i find they had not told the school police officer which they should have and had not contacted the county anti bullying team i asked why to be told again it was being dealt with under the school system i am also told the bully is now not at school.So Monday comes off to school he goes by 10am the phone call comes the bully is there and it's all off again but this time she is being made out to be the bullied one by my son and his friend(also bullied by her from the start in sept) but as my son had used his time out card as given by the dep head he was not in the lesson as he could see it kicking off.Off to the office of the nice bulling manager he goes to be told he is lieing and they where going to do dna and finger prints to which we will have to pay and now the teachers where watching his every move.Funny how this was not done when he was attacked by her since september if it had been perhaps this all would not have happened.Now he will not go back again as in that one day he got 2 detentions one from being late from the meeting to which the teacher knew of.He just feels now what ever he does will be wrong.So sorry to all of you that have taken the time to read this i know it has gone on abit but i realy am at a loss now what to do home ed is an option but he should be at school with his friends but the Dad part of me say's what if it's a knife next time or do i go local paper as it feels like the school is trying to keep it under rap's.Any thoughts or advise would be great.