Scottie first meet i ever went to was a Surrey meet and the only person i spoke to was another newbie... at the end we both said bollox to this and went
I went to the next one and started to speak to people and now im a mod on there and know everyone at meets, it dosnt happen over night... but once you get to know a few members it just grows and grows
Never did see the other newbie again tho
Stick at it mate and soon your know most