They are difficult for newbies meets as a a few of us have been knocking about this forum since 2008 and we have some good friends here.
I remember I pretty much gave up with Sussex scoobs at first (and have completely now) but ses is worth persevering as there are some good people on here.
It might not click the first meet you go to but the more you get along to the better it gets. We are more sensitive than ever of newbies not being left out but you also have to make a bit of effort. You'll be fine
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